很早就想写下听这首歌的感受，每次听完都感动不已，眼眶湿润。还有就是这首歌后面的心理学含意发人深思，特别对于我这样一个有女儿的父亲来说尤其如此。

歌词很凄凉：

Kelly Clarkson - Because Of You
专辑：美梦成真 Breakaway (澳洲版)

I will not make the same mistakes that you did
I will not let myself
Cause my heart so much misery
I will not break the way you did
You fell so hard
I've learned the hard way
To never let it get that far
Because of you
I never stray too far from the sidewalk
Because of you
I learned to play on the safe side so I don t get hurt
Because of you
I find it hard to trust not only me, but everyone around me
Because of you
I am afraid
I lose my way
And it s not too long before you point it out
I cannot cry
Because you know that s weakness in your eyes
I'm forced to fake
A smile, a laugh everyday of my life
My heart can't possibly break
When it wasn't even whole to start with
Because of you
I never stray too far from the sidewalk
Because of you
I learned to play on the safe side so I don t get hurt
Because of you
I find it hard to trust not only me, but everyone around me
Because of you
I am afraid
I watched you die
I heard you cry every night in your sleep
I was so young
You should have known better than to lean on me
You never thought of anyone else
You just saw your pain
And now I cry in the middle of the night
For the same damn thing
Because of you
I never stray too far from the sidewalk
Because of you
I learned to play on the safe side so I don't get hurt
Because of you
I try my hardest just to forget everything
Because of you
I don't know how to let anyone else in
Because of you
I'm ashamed of my life because it s empty
Because of you
I am afraid
Because of you
Because of you

我也不想翻译，因为不想破坏了英文的神韵。

这位超女出身的美女在第二张专辑中加入了摇滚风格，而且还很有ego的表达了自己的心声，from the deepest bottom of her heart. and personally, i think the honesty is the precious stone for a real artist. 幼年的家庭创伤对于人的成长的影响不可估量。人生的无意义感，不信任感，不安全感交织在一起。其结果对人是毁灭性的，同时也是社会问题的根源。好在mv的结局还残留了那么一点点希望，而这也仅仅是心理上面的安慰而已。

我也是一个女儿的父亲，她也有同样的心理问题。这段时间以来她有了很大的进步，我也努力给与我最多的爱给他，希望她从我这里得到更多的安全感，学会信任别人，学会灿烂的去笑。愿上帝与我同行！